Marketing as you know it is dead. Instead, embrace these online tools to build interactive, engaging relationships with existing customers and virtual prospects.

By: MATT ALDERTON

Maybe you’ve seen it: An Internet video that’s been passed along virtually from one consumer to the next in order to answer the age-old question, “Will you explode if you drink Diet Coke and eat Mentos?”

The video—which depicts folks dropping Mentos candy into bottles of Diet Coke to create a series of massive soda geysers—debuted last summer at EepyBird.com and spread virally to thousands of users via the Internet. Mentos embraced and even promoted the buzz-worthy video and its surrounding hype. Coke, meanwhile, did not. Only one of them benefited from what marketers estimated to be worth $10 million in free online advertising.

The lesson here is simple: The way that consumers consume is changing—and so, therefore, is the way that companies are marketing. You can either get on board, or be left behind.

“It’s all about the democratization of the Web,” says Joe Lichtenberg, vice president of business development at Eluma, a Tewksbury, Mass.-based company that specializes in building online communities. That democratization is taking place, he adds, in the form of Web 2.0, a collective term for a breed of emerging Internet tools—including blogs, social networks and viral videos—that are designed to turn consumers into marketers, ending advertising as we know it.

“The whole Web 2.0 movement has absolutely changed the way that consumers behave,” Lichtenberg says. “They’re more interested in what other people have to say about a company’s products and services than in what the company says on its Web site or in its marketing materials.”

The change doesn’t only affect big guns like Coke and Mentos, either. It affects small businesses, too. “Ultimately, small business owners are going to have to play in these new forums in order to reach customers—in order to reach people,” says Brian Solis, principal of San Francisco-based FutureWorks PR and author of the PR 2.0 blog. “Web 2.0 is about conversations, and these conversations are taking place with or without you.”

Change Your Thinking

Small businesses have a lot to gain from Web 2.0, including increased brand awareness, deeper customer loyalty and—as a result—higher sales. Taking advantage of those benefits, however, requires a fundamental change in the way they market their businesses.

“People are still stuck in what I call the 20th-century model of marketing,” says marketing consultant Kevin Stirtz, author of Marketing for Smart People, “and that is where they’re selling, selling, selling and pitching, pitching, pitching. That’s old school. We’re in the 21st century, and it’s all about serving your customers.”

In other words, Solis says, people don’t want to be sold to. They want to be provided for. “Nobody wants to be marketed to,” he says. “And because it’s a peer-to-peer playing field, it requires a whole different mindset.”

“The whole purpose of marketing is to help your customers,” Stirtz adds. And that’s exactly what Web 2.0 is all about. The tools are already there, he says, and most of them are free. All small business owners have to do is use them.

Cast a Wide Net

There are scores of Web 2.0 tools online. There are a few staples, though, that every business should consider, which Lichtenberg has organized into a pyramid that he calls the Customer Engagement Pyramid. At the bottom are the following tools, designed to cast a wide net and reach a broad base of consumers who have little loyalty to your brand: